The subject of love, relationships and marriage are always hot topics – especially now in the month of love and all the Valentine’s hype. Below is a list that I came up with and tried to live by before getting married [and some are still relevant]. It definitely helped me as God has blessed me incredibly. Hopefully it can help someone out there as well.
:: Instead of concentrating only on what type of mate you want, make sure to constantly better yourself also, building up your integrity and character.
:: Be patient. Don’t jump into things way too prematurely just b/c of infatuation or flattery.
:: Be independent. Be content and comfortable doing things yourself. Yes, fellowship is great, but being totally dependent on a person|people is dangerous.
:: Remember that marriage will not fulfill everything. A boyfriend|girlfriend relationship won’t fulfill everything. Only God can do that. If you carry that mentality, you’re in for a surprise.
:: Don’t settle. That means you’re not trusting that God will give you your perfect match.
Here’s a funny:
An English professor wrote the words,
“a woman without her man is nothing”
on the blackboard and directed the students to punctuate it correctly.
The men wrote: “A woman, without her man, is nothing.”
The women wrote: “A woman: without her, man is nothing.”
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