November 5, 2004
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I’m sorry to those who were offended by my previous entry in regards to rape and sexual assault. I wrote it b/c I read something from a source last year that some of those crimes happen in part b/c of the ways girls dress. I don’t remember the exact justification or the study they did [since I read it awhile ago], but I shouldn’t have written something that I couldn’t back up. In no way, was I implying that it’s the only reason. For those of you who have been an innocent victim to such horrendous acts, I AM INCREDIBLY SORRY for my negligence!!! No words describe how foolish I feel. I was trying to make a point, but it came across in a way that I didn’t mean to be interpreted. My deepest apologies . . .
Comments (8)
I don’t think you should be apologizing. You didn’t say anything wrong except you were only expounding on what the Bible says. Of course, rape is a horrible thing to happen to a person but that’s a different subject.
no apology needed…I didn’t see anything that could be labeled as offensive and I’m an expert on offending people.
the heart behind your message is clear.
breathe easy, grace.
reading your previous entry and this entry… honestly, there is no point of apologizing to those who were “offended” because it didn’t seem offensive or obscure.. it was really well said and i have to agree with you on how media affects everyone’s perception of their image… anyways, you did however state your opinion and evident facts so good job. [give yourself a pat on the back] and don’t stress over that.
Grace…way to go in keeping the sista’s accountable! We all need to be reminded that our body is a temple that God dwells in! ^_^
totally understandable. by the way, I really liked your previous post!
Well well well, seems like you stir a little some’m some’m in people with your xanga. I don’t know about the whole thing though. Rape and sexual assault are in-excusable. But I don’t think your first post diminishes that at all. You’re just talking about women that wear revealing clothing. I agree with Dave Chapel on this. I’ll paraphrase him.
Is not ok for man to treat women like whores just cuz their wearing a whore uniform. But! If I’m wearing a cop’s uniform and there’s an emergency and someone comes to be for help, do I have the right to complaint to them saying ‘just cuz i’m wearing this uniform you going to treat met like a cop?’
It’s a joke, but some good points can be taken from it I think.
Hi gracie… I realize this is a little late, but I hope you aren’t apologizing because people didn’t agree with you. I’m glad to see you stick your neck out and say what’s on your mind and in your heart. I don’t know if you edited the post you were apologizing for, but know that you have a right to your opinions even if people don’t agree. You said it yourself.
I think your point is well spoken. Men take the blame for everything in that area, but the reality of it is the situation is not improved by the way women dress these days. It’s like giving cigarettes to a chain smoker. Or paying for a buffet for someone with an eating disorder. Woman need to take responsibility for the way they present themselves. I asked my wife the other night after seeing previews of shows involving plastic surgery… “Do you think women who get breast enhancement are offended when men stare at their breast?” I’ve heard it improves their self confidence, but what exactly do women who have the procedure done expect? You want to be noticed, you will. It’s really silly. Anyway, speak your mind more often gracie…I’m listening.